I think anyone who is TTC tries something new each cycle in hopes that that will be the answer to getting that BFP. I have tried teas, pineapple, being lazy, being energetic, being around babies for good kharma, avoiding babies, taking coughs syrup, avoiding medications, basically anything that I thought would help.
After a discussion with my husband, we feel that this is the answer this time:
Yes, that is a pile of pillows.
We were discussing how this months treatment is the same as last months (2nd femara cycle, ovidrel injection, progesterone suppositories until test date). We also discussed how (TMI alert!) "very wet" things are after BD and that we thought I lost a lot of the sperm due to him pulling out when he was done. So, we decided my hips need to be "tilted back" and that he needed to not only stay in after he was done but keep going since he generally has to use the restroom a lot afterwards and says he is still going when he does.
We tested our theory last week with the pillows and discovered that things were much less "wet" afterwards and he felt like he got everything out. So, fingers crossed that's been part of our problem!
It's crazy the things we try. I can definitely tell the femara is working again. I feel a lot of cramps and have a lot of EWCM. I'm almost worried I will ovulate before my trigger! My appointment is tomorrow, fingers crossed that what I'm feeling means good news and that our pillow theory is the answer!